'I got drunk at a mates house and stripped naked - there's videos floating around'

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A couple of weeks ago I got extremely drunk at a mate’s house and stripped off.

Now I’m aware that there are videos of me floating around that show me in a bad light.

The thing is that I didn’t do anything naughty like snog or sleep with a stranger, everything looks a lot worse that it really was.

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I was simply drunk and danced around. But if my partner gets wind, then he’ll throw me out. I’m on a final warning because he doesn’t think my bad behaviour is funny.

I’m terrified that someone is going to expose me. How do I orchestrate a vital damage limitation job?

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JANE SAYS: I suggest you contact the person who has these videos and ask him or her to take them down and destroy them.

Make it clear you won’t be blackmailed or intimidated and will go to the police if necessary.

Then ask yourself this, why do you keep getting drunk and ending up in trouble?

If you love and respect your partner, then why do you embarrass him?The bottom line is that if you don’t love him, then you should probably both split up. Speak to your GP about your drinking.

Can we revive our sex life?

MY partner and I are never in the mood for love at the same time. He’s a morning person; he wakes up at 6am feeling as horny as a rhino.

But I’m a sleepy head. I don’t get in from work until 9pm and sleep until 9am. He plays a lot of sports at weekends, while I hang out with my friends and family.

We’re like ships that pass in the night. We agree that we love each other, but I think that he’s unreasonable, while he accuses me of being lazy. How do we avoid drifting apart?

JANE SAYS: Clearly something has to give if this relationship is to be rescued. Instead of trading insults, I suggest you talk like adults and thrash this out.

Relationships are about compromise, so would you consent to more early morning love making in order to please him – if he promises to wait up for you?

You might also benefit from putting unbreakable sex dates in the diary. I fear that unless you start making your sex life a priority again, then it will lose momentum – along with your relationship.


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